I have set what is called "partial moderation." Which means that if you're a member, you can post without approval unless your post contains a link to a website that is not our community's whitelist. If it has a link to a site not on the list, it goes through the moderation queue.
I glanced through the list, which is a little old, and added a few sites that have come up since then. It should continue to work just fine. But if ever anything from a legit member hits moderation, that's why! I'll add sites to the whitelist whenever that happens.